Well, well…it seems to me that 2018 is officially the year of the haters. First, Bruno Mars had his own little hate train, and now it’s Cardi B’s turn to have one, and everyone’s jumpin’ on board. I can’t help but wonder if the haters are gonna react to Bruno and Cardi’s tour later this year. Lord knows they’ve given them enough hell.
So how did Cardi’s hate train start catching steam and easin’ on down the railroad? To be honest, it’s been a long time coming. I just became a fan of Cardi’s last year when “Bodak Yellow” was released (I don’t watch Love and Hip Hop; sorry, y’all), and I noticed she had a few detractors then. However, things really started to go left sometime last month.
The hate train really started to go into motion when Ms. Azealia Banks appeared on The Breakfast Club circa mid-May. Initially, Azealia didn’t seem to have too much of a problem with Cardi. There’s been some old tweets she posted admitting that Cardi was one of her favorite rappers, and she was even caught on camera dancing to “Bodak Yellow” when it was first released. However, when Cardi blew up, all that changed. Azealia went out of her way to slam her, and during her Breakfast Club interview, she even went as far as to say that Cardi was an “illiterate, untalented rat” and a “caricature of black women.” I find it interesting that Azealia finds Cardi so offensive to black women now when she herself has slammed her fellow sisters multiple times, and before Cardi gained the fame she has, Azealia had no problem whatsoever with Cardi’s behavior. Some back and forth arguments occurred between the two ladies on social media, and Cardi was so upset by the outcome she deleted her social media accounts, but only for a short time.
Lolita Beckford Dawkins aka “The Chick at the Mall”
Before the Azealia Banks situation, a visibly pregnant Cardi was shopping at a Las Vegas Mall and was approached by a huge fan—or so she said—by the name of Lolita Beckford Dawkins. When Dawkins asked for a picture, Cardi refused, due to not feeling photogenic at the moment. Dawkins quickly turned on her, and hollered out, “Fuck Cardi, you ain’t shit!” This escalated into a heated argument and Cardi’s bodyguards had to get involved to prevent the situation from becoming physical. Come on girl, this is a pregnant woman you wanna lay hands on. Sadly enough, despite the fact that this incident occurred in late April, the video went viral in May, after the Azealia Banks interview. SMH.
To be honest, this may not exactly be in the same category as the other cases I mentioned, but I feel like it’s still relevant. Nya Lee, Cardi’s former Love & Hip Hop co-star, publicly mentioned that she didn’t like Cardi’s flow. Cardi took the criticism personally and proceeded to drag Nya in her DM’s. The two of them exchanged some pretty nasty comments to each other—Cardi even went so far as to talk trash about the neck scar Nya has as the result of an accident years ago—and Nya went on to make the DM’s public. Cardi reactivated her social media account to give her opinion on the issue and to confront her haters and detractors yet again.
Another person to ride the Cardi B hate train is blogger Shegosspiz, who took to her site and drug Cardi to filth concerning her record contract, her relationship with Offset, and her sister, Hennessey Carolina. Cardi retaliated by going in on Shegossipz’s weight, and how she looked in a selfie she took while wearing lingerie. Cardi also pointed out the fact that Shegossipz is in her mid 30’s and doesn’t have a man or kids (that made me feel bad, considering I’m in the same predicament), whereas she is 25, engaged, and expecting a baby. People asked Cardi why she was even taking the time to respond to this woman, and Cardi emphatically stated that she doesn’t mind too much when people talk about her (riiiiight…), but she’ll always take up for her family and friends.
The Commenters at The Shade Room
Last but not least, according to my homegirl Empressive, another one of my favorite YouTubers, Cardi recently came across a post on The Shade Room of Hennessey Carolina in a Fashionova dress. Although the post praised Hennessey in the dress (she slayed, by the way), some of the commenters weren’t as sweet. I saw some of the comments myself, and a few of them called Cardi “Fraudi,” described Hennessey as annoying, etc. Basic hate…real basic. For the thousandth time, Cardi gave the haters attention they didn’t deserve, and provided a response that wasn’t even worth her time or effort in the Instagram post below:
The post has since been deleted.
Truth be told, all the hate that Cardi’s been getting lately is just completely uncalled for, especially the Azealia Banks issue, considering her past history with Cardi as well as other black women. However, I’m really gonna need Cardi to follow the example of Beyoncé and our boy Bruno: pay the haters dust.
Cardi, not only are you riding a gigantic wave of success right now, you’re one of the top female rappers in the game at the moment. On top of everything else, you’re having a baby! Right now, you should be one of the happiest people on Earth, and instead, you’re making yourself miserable responding to these haters. In your condition, the last thing you need to do is stress yourself out, especially behind most of this foolishness. In light of what just happened with Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain, I’m really gonna need you to not sweat the small stuff, and trust me, this is all small stuff. Look at it this way, when people hate on you, it basically means you’re doing something right. As Steve Harvey says, “New level, new devil.” Everyone was cool with Cardi when she was just a reality TV star, including Azealia Banks. However, once Cardi solidified herself as a heavy hitter in Hip Hop, all of a sudden she was damaged goods. For the most part, it’s pure jealousy. The rest of it is people that are bored with their own lives and have nothing better to do than to tear someone down on the internet.
With that being said, you can’t stoop to these folks’ level. They’re going to continue to say nasty things about you, your sister and your friends. Just don’t pay them any attention and continue to do you. To quote Steve Harvey again, “A dog can bark at the moon, but if the moon barks back, the dog becomes famous.” Just think about it: these people are mainly in the news right now because you responded to them. Don’t even waste your energy. Have your career, have your baby and live your best life. Just a little advice from a thirty-something with no man and no kids. 😉😉
—Written by Nadiya
So what do think about this siutation with Cardi B’s hate train? Do you think it’s well deserved, or are the haters way off base? Should Cardi ignore the people hatin’ on her, or should she continue to respond? Let me know in the comments section!